Dealing with ‘partners’ BPD

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2021.09.16 13:19 Throwaway927476 Dealing with ‘partners’ BPD

I’ve (M25) been seeing a girl F(23) for about 5 months now, and I’ve fallen pretty hard for her. She has BPD. She was diagnosed in the new year after having a pretty bad break up with her ex which resulted in her being in hospital. At the start it was stated that she wouldn’t be after a relationship for a while which was okay with me, however, things have gone to a way where we’re exclusively dating and have established we wouldn’t be speaking to or seeing anyone else romantically we’ve just not put the relationship label on it yet.
Things can be very hard at times, she has a lot of friends that are male that hit on her regularly and make advances, she says she doesn’t let them do anything and just ignores them. However, she still insists on talking to them regularly and meeting up with them whenever she’s in their town (she travels for music shows a lot). I’ve expressed that this makes me uncomfortable but it still happens.
When I’m out with friends she calls me a lot and I’m expected to answer but when she’s with friends will rarely answer the phone.
Last month she called things off with me which broke my heart, I go to sleep on FaceTime with this person every night and she has told me she loves me. When she broke things off she still called me all the time and got angry when I didn’t respond. She wanted me to read to her still which i did every night when we were dating, which I refused to do. then a few days after asked to meet up in person with me where she expressed she regrets it and wants to try again.
She recently started new medication which she says makes her uninterested in sex, which is understandable I wouldn’t want her to do anything that makes her uncomfortable. I do have a very high sex drive but for this person I am okay with waiting for a while. The issue here is that her posts on social media are highly sexual.
I do want to be with this person and we’re supposed to be going on vacation in a couple of weeks. When we’re good we’re amazing but part of me feels like I’m being used when she’s bored and doesn’t want to be alone.
Any advice is appreciated, I feel like I just needed to vent.
Tl:dr struggling to not feel used by partner with bpd, unsure if this is a phase that will pass.
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2021.09.16 13:19 throwaway8155399 Is there anyone interested in a foursome?

Is there a couple (MF) that would be interested in a foursome?
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2021.09.16 13:19 Josejg10 [US-NY] [H] Used EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra Gaming -KR [W] PayPal, local cash

Good morning everyone,
Looking to sell my used 3080 as I’ve managed to get the model I wanted. It’s a -KR model so I guess that’s good for mining. The card is in perfect working condition, never OC’d (just increased volt limit) and has only been used for gaming since date of purchase (Nov. 2020). The little square plate at the top of the card has some blemishes so be aware if you’re interested (pics included at end of Imgur). The rest of the card is unmarked.
Includes original box/accessories. I have registered the card and got the 5yr warranty which is technically not transferable but I can email you the original receipt (and the registered evga account so you can change the login info) if you want to keep the 5yr warranty or I can deregister, your choice.
Looking for $1350 shipped or $1300 local cash (NYC) Both prices are OBO so shoot your shot. Not opening chats so DM only please.
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2021.09.16 13:19 ReceptionJumpy1401 College classes start next week and idk

I don’t really want them to but at the same time I feel like I need them to, otherwise I’ll keep on this self destructive manner. Still no hangover so that’s nice, I’m lucky I don’t get them ever.
I’m thinking about going on campus, sitting on the steps alone and just having my earphones in and listening to music just watching the other students go on by and do their own thing. But just me sitting there not doing anything and just looking at them, the scenery, and just being outside feeling the climate.
I’m excited I guess to be back in the big library where everyone seems to be getting educated. But that’ll be more weird since they’ll be a lot more people in a close environment. Idk I guess I’ll see what happens.
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2021.09.16 13:19 the-Geeky-Lad Your thoughts on my list of universities for MS in CS in USA?

Hey people! Hope ya'll are safe amid the pandemic.
After some research and a deal of support from a good mentor, I've nearabout decided on the list of universities I'd like to apply to for F22. My idea is to pursue a MS in CS with some kind of specialization in machine learning. I haven't really precipitated on the machine learning aspect - for all I know, I'd just think of data science or something related. But yeah, that's the inchoate idea.
Here's what my profile looks like:

  1. I'm an Indian!
  2. CGPA of 8.26 from Vellore Institute of Technology (a prestigious tier-2 university in India)
  3. 3 years work exp. at a popular MNC in India as a fullstack developer - worked with international clients
  4. Bunch of hobby projects on smart home, smart car infotainment, etc.
  5. A decent open source contributor and part of an Android custom ROM organization on GitHub
  6. An inconsistent YouTuber posting demo videos about my hobby projects :D
  7. 316 in GRE (161Q, 155V, 4.5W)
  8. 113 in TOEFL (28R, 28L, 29S, 28W)
  9. 7 hackathons during undergrad. days with top-5 and top-10 shortlists in some - held by Siemens, IBM, Microsoft and others
Here's my list of universities (not in any order) and what I think of it:
  1. Northeastern University (ambitious)
  2. University of Illinois, Urbana Champaign (ambitious++)
  3. San Jose State University (mediocre)
  4. Purdue University (ambitious++)
  5. Arizona State University (ambitious)
  6. Stony Brook University (mediocre)
  7. University of Florida (mediocre)
  8. University of Illinois, Chicago (safe)
  9. University of Texas, Dallas (safe)
  10. University of Maryland, College Park (ambitious)
  11. University of California, Riverside (mediocre)
  12. Santa Clara University (safe)
Questions! Only after typing this out did I realize I have more than a few questions so here's the list:
  1. I'm caught in a quandary in bucketing these into safe, mediocre and ambitious so maybe you guys could correct me?
  2. Does the list look too ambitious and should I replace a few with more pragmatic ones?
  3. Is ASU (#5 on the list) and UMCP (#10) really so ambitious for my profile as I've come to hear?
  4. Am I being too unreasonable with Purdue?
  5. Any suggestions?
Thanks in advance!
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2021.09.16 13:19 JackJohnson321 Salami making without starter culture

Hi, I'm looking to make salami this weekend, however in doing some research, I've come across starter culture being added to some recipes. I've got mold 600 and cure #2 but no starter culture, would I be fine to go ahead without it or better to put it off?
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2021.09.16 13:19 pixelpicsa I’ve been feeling angry after being calm for weeks

Lots of bad things have happened to me in the last few weeks and I always said to myself “It’s okay, if you’re calm the universe will reward you.” but I have been kinda loosing hope. At night when I want to sleep all I feel is anger and it makes it hard to fall asleep. I have been doing so good, so why do I feel like this now? How should I calm myself?
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2021.09.16 13:19 harshsahai13 Advice about mutual funds

Hi guys I am n newbie.I just started last week and I don't want to take risks in stocks in the beginning so I am thinking of investing in mutual funds first. Considering the historic bull Run all MF returns are very high. How to know which MF will still give good returns after market settles.
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2021.09.16 13:19 lvupquokka How to trust people more? And know who to trust? (Particularly at work)

A lot of us have traumas whether it’s from LVMs, family or societal discrimination against women.
A serious harassment scandal happened at my workplace and some heated discussions ensued. I find it difficult to trust my coworkers after one particular coworker expressed some very worrying views, gaslighting the issues (men’s rights, PC culture, people can’t make a joke anymore), denying/rejecting this toxic culture happens (in our team), and rejecting harassment/inclusion training as being applicable (to our team). Another coworker agreed. Then a company wide anonymous discussion indicated that this way of thinking is wide spread in the organization.
Obviously the team is large and most were silent, and I like to believe that people that I work with are trustworthy. This untrusting way of thinking is preventing me from developing better relationships with my coworkers.
In my private life I also struggle with trusting others have good intentions, since I grew up quite rough with basically no parents and had to fend off people with bad intentions for my family (e.g. real estate agents overcharging thousands of dollars, cars mechanics sending BS repair quotes).
How could a woman, after experiencing all the BS from FDS and work their whole lives, learns to trust others to develop genuine friendships and positive business relationships?
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2021.09.16 13:19 sneekcreeper Preset Problems

As a high-level player, i and most of you have the problem with not having enough preset's.

My proposed fix is making "global preset's" and "local preset's"

Local preset's:
A preset that is stored on the device that you are using when you make the preset. (This way we can have as many preset's as we want/need.)
Global preset's:
They would work like preset's work now, they will be there on any device you log in on. (This would be for the preset's you always need, like skilling or the bosses you do the most.)
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Please note i’m not talking about a switch, I want to output one console to two screens simultaneously.
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